In a shocking revelation, Michelle Obama has candidly revealed her true feelings about skipping Donald Trump’s inauguration earlier this year, shedding light on the intense personal struggle behind her decision. On the April 23 episode of her podcast, “The Michelle Obama Podcast,” the former First Lady opened up to actress Taji P. Henson about the emotional turmoil she faced, stating, “I had to basically trick myself out of it.”

Obama recounted how societal pressures and expectations weighed heavily on her, leading to a fierce internal battle. “People couldn’t believe that I was saying no for any other reason,” she explained, dismissing assumptions that her marriage to Barack Obama was in jeopardy. Instead, she emphasized the importance of asserting her own needs, stating, “It took everything in my power to not do the thing that was perceived as right but do the thing that was right for me.”

The 61-year-old further revealed that her decision was so profound that she instructed her team not to prepare any attire for the event, symbolizing her commitment to her personal choice. “I’ve always been prepared for any occasion, but I had to let go this time,” she stated, highlighting the exhausting role women often play as “shock absorbers” in their families and careers.

In a powerful message to her daughters, Malia and Sasha, Obama stressed the importance of learning to say no, reinforcing that self-care is vital. Her poignant reflections resonate deeply, as she encourages women everywhere to prioritize their well-being. Though she was absent from the inauguration, Michelle Obama’s bold stand serves as a reminder of the strength it takes to prioritize oneself in a world that often demands conformity.